The Word Love

Everyone is just crazy about it. Don't be mistaken! I am not talking about LOVE as in the feeling. I am talking about love as in the word!

I am not anti-love or anything. As a matter of fact, I am going through this unexplainable feeling at the moment. I’m just wondering why some people tend to fall in and out of love very fast. I know that love has many faces but you can tell if one person is really in love or in love with the word "love".

I have encountered many people like this. As I listen to their stories, I just can't help to think that they are not really in love. In fact, one of my best friend is like this. I even told her how I feel about her relationships. She said that she will soon end the relationship but she can't help it because it's easy for her to fall in love. If your past relationships failed and you want the right one for you, you should be very careful in choosing your partner or handling your relationship.

"LOVE CAN'T BE BUILT IN ONE DAY."

You might want to check yourself. If you want to measure if you love the right way, you should ask yourself and reflect on the true meaning of your significant other in your life. Don't let yourself or your significant other suffer from a mistaken definition of love when the real thing comes along. Remember the song with the phrase, "It's sad to belong to someone else, when the right one comes along". I just hope that less people will make this song as their life's theme song.

I don't even believe in "Love at first sight." A big NO! However, I do believe that "Friendship comes first before love". You can get to know each other with FRIENDSHIP as the first step and even if love is gone, if your friendship is intact, there will be less complications in the relationship.

Love is not all about attraction or being hitched with the most popular gal/guy in town. It's accepting the person for who she/he is. It's not all about perfection or beauty but it is also about knowing the flaws or imperfections of the person but you still continue to love him/her.

If you’re looking for someone to depend on or be with you forever, my advice is for you to be careful and take one step at a time to know your potential relationships. There's no harm and it's free to get to know more people. You might know it but you might find yourself waking up in the morning beside your loved one and uttering that "YOU ARE BLESSED TO GIVE THE RIGHT KIND OF LOVE TO THAT PERSON AND YOU'RE BEING LOVED IN RETURN."